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Above:
Howard with his wife Chris and their new family
- Lili and Gryff.
Notice the bike with our school colors!
I really don't like to write bios.
I have a tendency to remember every little detail
of my life and then I sit and wonder which details
are interesting enough to include. For this
exercise I will relate nothing prior to high
school and try to keep any lurid details to
myself (yeah, like there are any). Here goes.
Graduated with you in 1963, and proceeded
directly to AVC. Spent 3 years there, the last
fighting with a computer (one of the originals)
that was convinced I had enrolled in 27 semester
units in the fall of '65. It issued me a report
card with 11 units of 'F' then cancelled 3 of
the 11 'F' units because it was discovered that
I had already passed that class with an 'A'.
After several months of battle I was able to
convince the damn thing that it was all Austin
Jordan's fault (bless the man). I moved on to
Cal Poly Pomona. Over the next two years I roomed
with Bill Studt (AV '62), Dave Smith ('63) and
a small, Oriental math major, in an even smaller
dorm room. I got kicked out of the dorms when
I held the little fellow out a window at 2:30am
because he and his friends wouldn't stop playing
bridge. Strange game, bridge, I find that it
induces extreme anger in those observing, especially
at 2:30 in the morning. Does that qualify as
lurid? Probably not, just stupid. The dorm mother
relented the next quarter and let me back in.
I discovered later that I got a room by myself
because no one wanted to take a chance on my
nocturnal fits of anger. That worked out pretty
well because then I could leave out my KFC chicken
buckets and no one complained.
Left Cal Poly in '68 thinking that I
had graduated and enrolled in Mc George Law
School in Sacramento. I soon discovered that
all of my last quarter's work at Cal poly had
been lost when my faculty advisor had stepped
off a curb in downtown Pomona with his Seeing
Eye dog and was struck and killed by a bus.
You can't imagine how bizarre that sounds until
you see it in writing, but a true story anyhow.
Apparently, he had turned over all the projects
to his student asst. The assistant had done
his part and gone home for the summer where
he decided to transfer to a school back east.
Never to be seen again, as were my assignments,
on these Pacific shores. Until now, as you can
see, my decisions have been, sure, steady and
nigh on to perfect. Alas, that was not to continue.
My first marriage began with my move
to Sacramento and ended during that first year
in law school. No big deal and hardly worth
an afterthought. I returned to the AV and worked
in the insurance industry where I met my second
wife. I married her in 1970 and I believe that
those were16 of my most boring years. Her? She's
still in denial. I don't know how she explains
the kids. That might really be ear popping.
There were some important occurrences during
this time highlighted, of course, by the birth
of the aforementioned children, Jessica now
teaching Sp. Ed. in Palmdale and Eben, still
confused and wandering around on some volleyball
court nearby. We separated on Mother's Day of
'86. May 11th, I believe. I think she thought
of it as her present to herself.
Post divorce years. Did a lot of things.
Owned a house cleaning business and a liquor
store. Worked in plant maintenance for a local
school district. It was the maintenance job
that changed my life. In 1988 I was injured
badly enough that an operation was required
in 1990. In '94, I was no longer able to do
that job and was required to make a decision
about my future. A very important person in
my life had been telling me, for years, that
I needed to become a teacher (said I had a gift
for communicating with young people). He finally
won and I went back to Cal Poly, finished my
BS, started and finished my Teaching Credential
at Point Loma University and took on the challenge
of teaching convicted juvenile felons (Bloods
and Crips) at Challenger Memorial Youth Center
in Lancaster. I soon realized that to be a teacher
is to never finish your education so I enrolled
at Grand Canyon University and completed my
Master of Arts Teaching in 2001. In 2000 I met
a lady in my bowling league and married her
in Oct. of 2002. She seems able to put up with
my eccentricities, including the one involving
me, rolling around, on the front room floor
with as many big dogs as I can fit in the room.
Bless the woman. She let me buy my dream motorcycle
this year and the other day she bought me a
revolving fan with a remote control. Life seems
to be on a definite upswing.
For updated information, go to our registry.
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